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What is a sober living home?

A sober living home is a shared, alcohol- and drug-free house where people in recovery live together under house rules while they work, attend outpatient treatment and rebuild daily life. It is a home, not a treatment program.

Not treatment
No on-site counseling, therapy or clinical care under New Jersey's rule; support stays non-clinical.
Regulated in NJ
The state licenses cooperative sober living residences under a Class F license.
10 residents at most
Under the state rule, not counting the operators.

Reviewed against public records, October 2026: NJ Department of Community Affairs; N.J.A.C. 5:27, effective January 6, 2025. Sources

Line drawing of a house with two windows and an arched door beside two smaller house outlines, on deep green

What does a sober living home provide, and what does it leave to treatment?

A sober living home provides a substance-free place to live, written house rules and people who hold residents to them; it does not provide therapy, medical care or prescriptions.

In NJ Sober Living's homes

  • All four are Class F licensed by NJ DCA, with a live-in operator, an operator on site 7 p.m.–7 a.m., and house management and behavioral health technicians.
  • Curfew, periodic drug testing and house expectations hold the structure.
  • Each home confirms its rules with a resident before move-in.
  • Residents attend a licensed outpatient program nearby in the evening, and the house drives them there and back.

Read the house rulesHow it works

What the house provides

Six things make a house a sober living home:

  • A substance-free homeNo alcohol or drugs in the house, for anyone.
  • Written house rulesThe rules the house runs by, in writing.
  • Someone who enforces themAn operator or house manager; in peer-run homes, the residents themselves.
  • Drug and alcohol testingNew Jersey lets house rules require it weekly.
  • A curfewReasonable, and never during work or recovery activities.
  • Housemates in recoveryPeers who hold each other to the same goal.

What it leaves to treatment providers

Four things happen outside the house:

  • Therapy and counselingNew Jersey's rule bars on-site counseling and therapy.
  • Medical and psychiatric careFrom a doctor or psychiatrist, not the house.
  • Prescribing medicationThe house can store it safely; it never prescribes it.
  • Clinical assessmentDone by the outpatient or treatment provider.

Sources: N.J.A.C. 5:27-2.1 and 5:27-13.2; NARR Standard 3.0.

What is shared in a sober living home?

Residents share the kitchen, the dining table, the living room, bathrooms and, in most homes, a bedroom. Here is what that looks like, room by room.

The whole house shares one table. Residents cook in one kitchen and share the cleanup that comes with it. Evenings without treatment are spent in the house with housemates, under curfew. Bedrooms are shared, and arrangements differ by house; under New Jersey's rule, bedroom doors can't have keyed locks or deadbolts. Housemates share bathrooms, and outdoor space is shared too.

Room by room

Six spaces residents share

  • Dining tableOne table for the whole house.
  • KitchenOne kitchen, and the cleanup is shared.
  • Living roomEvenings in with housemates, under curfew.
  • BedroomShared, set up differently by house; no keyed locks or deadbolts.
  • BathroomShared by housemates.
  • YardOutdoor space is shared too.

Bedroom locks: N.J.A.C. 5:27-13.3.

In NJ Sober Living's homes

Are all sober living homes the same? The four levels of support

No. The National Alliance for Recovery Residences (NARR) sorts recovery homes into four levels, from peer-run to clinical. Support grows at each level.

The four levels of support in sober living homes: line drawing of a rising staircase marked with dots, with the NJ Sober Living logo and "Support grows at each level" text
  1. Peer-run

    Level I

    Democratically governed by the residents themselves. Oxford Houses are the best-known example.

  2. Monitored

    Level II

    A senior resident or house manager runs the house day to day, with house rules and structure.

  3. Supervised

    Level III

    Trained or credentialed staff, for residents who need more support than Levels I and II give.

  4. Clinical

    Level IV

    Supervised peer and professional staff, with clinical services alongside the housing.

NARR's levels describe support, not a state license. Sober living homes are also called recovery residences, sober homes or recovery homes; a halfway house is something else: sober living vs. halfway house. Sources: NARR Standard 3.0 (2018) and NARR's recovery residence levels; Jason et al. (2006) on Oxford House.

How does New Jersey regulate sober living homes?

New Jersey licenses cooperative sober living residences under a Class F license from the Department of Community Affairs (N.J.A.C. 5:27).

N.J.A.C. 5:27, Class F · as amended, effective January 6, 2025

The state rule sets eight requirements a resident will notice:

  • 10 residents at mostNot counting the operators.
  • Two operators, one there overnightOne on site from 7:00 p.m. to 7:00 a.m. when residents are present, and at least one living in the residence.
  • Weekly testing allowedHouse rules may require drug and alcohol tests of every resident each week.
  • A reasonable curfewIt doesn't apply during work or recovery activities, or block visits and errands.
  • Medication lockboxesThe home provides them so residents can secure prescriptions.
  • No keyed bedroom locksBedroom doors can't have keyed entry locks or deadbolts.
  • Serious incidents reportedA death, overdose or assault that brings first responders is reported to the Department.
  • Non-clinical support onlyNo on-site counseling, therapy or clinical treatment.

This describes the state rule, as general information, not legal advice. Ask any home whether it holds a Class F license.

House rules in our homes

Who is sober living for?

A recovery residence fits people who have finished, or are stepping down from, a higher level of treatment and need a stable home before living on their own.

Who a sober living home suits after treatment: line drawing of a house key on a ring, with the NJ Sober Living logo and "A stable home before living alone" text

For familiesFor referring clinicians

Does sober living work? What the research shows

Two studies that followed residents for 18 and 24 months found more abstinence than at entry, and less substance use than usual care.

300 people entering two California sober living programs, interviewed at entry and at 6, 12 and 18 months.

No alcohol or drug use in the past 6 months
ProgramEntry6 mo12 mo18 moAvg. stay
Options Recovery Services, Berkeley11%68%68%46%254 days
Clean and Sober Transitional Living, Sacramento County20%40%45%42%166 days

Polcin, Korcha, Bond and Galloway (2010), Journal of Psychoactive Drugs 42(4):425–433. Entry measures the 6 months before moving in. Both studies are outside New Jersey.

How do you choose a sober living home in New Jersey?

Choose a sober home by asking the right questions before move-in, and by visiting the house.

Read the house rules first, then ask who is on site overnight, how testing and medication storage work, and what happens after a relapse. Our guide walks through every question, the red flags to watch for and a sheet for comparing homes side by side.

How to choose a sober living home

Before you move in

Five checks before you decide

  1. Read the house rulesStart with the written rules the home runs by.
  2. Ask who is on site overnightNew Jersey's rule puts one operator on site from 7:00 p.m. to 7:00 a.m. when residents are present.
  3. Ask how testing and medication storage workThe rule allows weekly testing and requires medication lockboxes.
  4. Ask what happens after a relapseUnder N.J.A.C. 5:27-3.3, a home can remove a resident for breaking its rules.
  5. Visit the houseSee it before you decide.

N.J.A.C. 5:27-2.1, 5:27-13.2, 5:27-13.3 and 5:27-3.3.

Questions people ask about sober living

Four recovery homes in Bergen County, Class F licensed by NJ DCA, with rides to evening treatment.

WaldwickOld TappanCloster (two homes)

Sources

  1. New Jersey Department of Community Affairs, State of New Jersey Recovery Housing Program Action Plan (draft), Program Definitions: Recovery House (definition from SAMHSA). nj.gov
  2. N.J.A.C. 5:27-2.1 (cooperative sober living residences), 5:27-13.2 (house rules) and 5:27-13.3 (safety), amended and adopted at 57 N.J.R. 13(b), effective January 6, 2025. Cornell LII
  3. N.J.A.C. 5:27-3.3, eviction of residents of cooperative sober living residences. Cornell LII
  4. National Alliance for Recovery Residences, NARR Standard 3.0 (November 2018) and recovery residence levels. narronline.org
  5. Polcin DL, Korcha R, Bond J, Galloway G (2010). What did we learn from our study on sober living houses and where do we go from here? Journal of Psychoactive Drugs 42(4):425–433. PMC3057870
  6. Jason LA, Olson BD, Ferrari JR, Lo Sasso AT (2006). Communal housing settings enhance substance abuse recovery. American Journal of Public Health 96(10):1727–1729. PMC1586125

This guide describes recovery housing in general and New Jersey's rule as general information. It is not legal or medical advice.